Surviving the Witching Hour

When Dylan was a toddler, I hated the late afternoon. By 4:00 p.m., my delightful, happy, playful son turned into a raging monster of frustration and dissatisfaction.  Nothing made him happy, and that is not hyperbole.  I wanted to crawl under a bed and sing “I caaaan’t heeeaaaar yoouu!” at the top of my lungs.  Not a pretty time.  But, I did learn how to handle it in ways that didn’t involve duct tape.  At least, most of the time.

Knowing what skills toddlers are developing helped me figure out witching hour interventions that had a prayer of success.  Here’s some development guidelines for kids 15 to 36 months old. This is a fairly good list. The most useful part is the information about what kids are physically capable of in terms of gross motor and fine motor skills. It helped me think of physical and sensory activities to do with them.

One game that my son loved between about 18 and 24 months was Fill It Up, Dump It Out.  He would spend 20-30 minutes happily putting every action figure sized toy he could find into a juice pitcher and then dump it out. The narrow mouth made the dumping part tricky when a toy would get stuck. It was great fun watching him figure out how to get out the things that fit on the way in.

Both my kids loved blowing bubbles outside. By that I really mean they loved stomping and catching and watching the bubbles that I blew. They also loved trying to blow bubbles, but they made slobbery messes until they were about four. One thing that made this successful was not blowing bubbles every single day. Blowing bubbles was kind of a treat, and they responded to that excitement. I heartily recommend making your own bubble solution, since kids are going to spill a fair amount of it. Also, investing in spill-proof bubble containers is worth it. You can usually find these at Target or Wal-Mart. Just so you know, spill-proof bubble containers are only spill-proof until your child learns to unscrew the top and open them. They are not dump-proof, and you’ll still be making your own bubble solution.

Another great way to distract kids is with finger plays and songs. We all know these and if you don’t this is a great collection of rhymes and songs. Do the actions with your child, sing in silly voices, and be as animated as you can stand at 4:30 in the afternoon. You’ll find your child’s fascination with repetition kicks in and you’ll have “Five Little Monkeys” stuck in your head for about 3 weeks solid. But, you’ll make it through the witching hour.

When all else fails, defy the guilt trip, turn on Barney or Elmo or (heaven forbid!) Teletubbies and hand your kid a bag of goldfish crackers and a sippy cup. It doesn’t involve duct tape.

What’s your duct-tape-free afternoon survival strategy?  Please tell me I’m not the only mom who had to dance to The Witch Doctor with a 2 year old for 45 minutes solid.

Tags: fine motor skills, gross motor skills, nursery rhymes, sensory activities, toddler

Pretend Animal Races

First, figure out where you will do this. Down a hallway or through a living room is generally what I do. But this can easily be done outdoors on a “I’m bored” summer afternoon.

When you run the race have one child count for the other (or you can count). This gives practice in rote counting and eliminates the need for a stop watch or timer. If you are up for the additional complication of a timer then use it. But you don’t have to.

If competition breeds contention at your house, have the children just try to beat their own best times. Or eliminate the racing component all together. The activity can still work with your kids just taking turns. I know, since most often that is how I have to do it.

Ideas for Animal Races

• Hop like a turtle or kangaroo
• Slither like a snake
• Walk like a crab
• Gallop like a horse
• Fly like a bird
• Stomp like a dinosaur
• Waddle like a duck
• Prowl like a cat
• Run like a cheetah

Other Ideas

• Dance like a ballerina
• Float like a cloud
• Crawl like a baby
• Skip
• Hop on one foot
• Run
• Roll like a barrel
• Do somersaults

Do you have another idea for a great race? Leave me a comment and let me know.

Tags: creativity, early elementary, gross motor skills, preschool